Dear Friends and Followers,
It is with profound sadness and a heavy heart that we write to share some deeply difficult news with the wonderful community here at Home is Where the Boat Is. Our beloved Mary has passed away.
Mary spent years creating this special corner of the internet, transforming her love for lake life, gardening, and creative hosting into something truly magical. Whether she was sharing a new tablescape, inviting you into her potting shed, celebrating “Tea on Tuesdays,” or posting photos of her cherished pups, Sophie and Lola, her goal was always to bring a bit of beauty, warmth, and simple joy into your lives.
We want to express our deepest gratitude to each and every one of you. Mary cherished her readers more than words can say. Your visits, your thousands of kind comments, your shared stories, and the genuine connections you formed with her brought her immense happiness. You weren’t just followers to Mary; you were a community of friends who shared her passion for the little joys in life.
Thank you for being such a meaningful part of her journey and for filling her life with so much warmth and encouragement over the years.
As we navigate this difficult time, we find comfort in knowing that her spirit lives on through the beautiful archive of creativity she left behind. We hope that whenever you see a vibrant hydrangea, set a beautiful table, or enjoy a quiet moment by the water, you will think of Mary and smile.
With love and gratitude,
The Family & Friends of Mary
Home is Where the Boat Is
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Such a loss. Mary felt like a friend and she will be missed. Blessings and prayers to her family and friends
My heart is heavy with the hearing of the loss of Mary. Such joy she has brought to so many. May you find God’s peace as you maneuver through this extremely difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and your precious pups. 🙏💕🙏
I’m so very saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. Through the years, I certainly have enjoyed sitting down at my table and finding a posting from Home is Where the Boat Is. She will be missed by me and all her readers.
I am heartbroken. Mary brought me/us so much joy and beauty. My heartfelt condolences to her family and all of her many friends.
Oh my this saddens me beyond words. She was my sunshine on many a cloudy morning. Blessings to all she left behind. Thank you for letting us know.
So sorry for your loss 😢😢
Home is Where the Boat is has inspired and lifted me up for many years. Blessings and love to Mary’s family and friends during this difficult time. Peace to you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Mary brightened my day for years with her posts. May your family and friends find comfort in knowing how many lives she touched.
That makes me so sad!
My condolences for your loss.
Mary’s posts were my favorite and I looked forward to each and everyone!
When I saw one in my inbox it lifted my spirits regardless of what was going on.
What a shock. I always loved her posts of Sophie and Lola, Tea on Tuesday and of course beautiful pictures of Lake Norman. Such a loss. Prayers to her family.
The world is a little less special with the loss of Mary. Her blogs have brought so much beauty and joy to so many of us. I will miss her so much. My sympathies to all who loved her.
May her memory be eternal… the world has lost a very talented, kind, sharing lady.. but.. heaven has gained a creative angel! I wish I could see the beauty she will be adding to an already glorious heaven. Thank you Mary for all of your wonderful gifts that you shared. You will be missed. May our loving God grant your family peace and strength in knowing how much you were loved by each of us that you touched through your beloved blog.
Deepest condolences to the family! I’m so saddened by this news and I will truly miss her creativity and design inspirations. Such a huge loss for this community and she will be remembered with such fondness and missed terribly. May the Lord comfort her loved ones with the knowledge of how appreciated Mary was!
Oh, this is so very sad! Mary has been a huge influence on my style for so many years. She will be truly missed by all of us. Prayers for comfort for all of you.
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So sorry for your loss praying for comfort and peace
I will miss her terribly. She was so inspirational and just plain cozy. I am so heartbroken for all of you. Rest in beautiful peace Mary.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have felt like she was a friend from the first time I read her blog. She made me laugh, try new things and we shared a deep affection for Halloween. Cherish your memories and know she touched many people.
I am deeply saddened to read this post. Mary was a special lady that I shared many of the same likes with…flowers, birds, tea, dishes, and most of all we shared the love of our babies. I have a long hair dachshund, Sophie who I love dearly!! I will miss her so much. Prayers for the family and friends in the days ahead. Much love to all. 🙏♥️
This blog has been a “bubble of happy” during many hard things in my life. Although technically strangers, I know many of us felt a kinship with Mary’s beautiful self. She will be so missed.
I am so saddened and shocked by this news. Mary brought me and so many others so much joy reading her posts, following the stories of their dogs, their beautiful property, her lovely flower arranging, and who could forget Rod and Rowena, and so much more. I have told my husband for years I wanted to move to Lake Norman because of her posts and photos of their beautiful area. I will miss her immensely. My thoughts and prayers to her family.
Such sad news. Mary was so talented and brought much joy to all her readers. My deepest sympathies and prayers for peace go to her family!!!! May she rest in peace!!!
I cried when i read this you are in my prayers and i will never spot thinking of the love she put into this site i will miss her love for all of us who loved her posts Lisa
May her memory be eternal! Mary was a bright light in so many people’s lives and will be missed.
So sorry for your loss. Please take comfort that Mary was cherished by our community. She was so creative and I looked forward to her posts. This is devastating news . She will be missed but heaven has gained an angel.
I too am heartbroken. Her blog, creativity, kindness… ugh, she was simply the best. May she rest in piece and may her family and friends move forward with her love in their heart.
My heart is so saddened to hear of her passing. What began as simply following her blog became something much more meaningful to me. Through the words she shared and the pieces of her life she opened up to us, she became a friend—one I never had the opportunity to meet in person, but one whose life touched mine nonetheless.
I am thankful to God for allowing our paths to cross, even in this unexpected way
oh I am so sorry to hear this. Mary helped to spread beauty and grace in this world and I am very thankful for that. I will miss her and her posts.
I am heartbroken for Mary’s family, friends, and blog friends. Her blog truly brought me joy, and I will miss her creative posts, enthusiasm for celebrating, and kind encouragement. May she rest in peace.
So Sorry for your loss. Loved to receive the newsletter. Learned alot from Mary. Are you planning to have someone continue with it in her absence? With Sympathy, Cynthia Austin
Mary will defiantly be missed. I only stumbled upon this site 2 years ago and looked forward to seeing new posted in my Inbox. They always brightened my day. She will be really missed. My condolences to your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. She was a treasure to so many. I will miss her beautiful self. Prayers for her family and friends.
I am absolutely heartbroken and shocked to read this news. Mary was such a tremendous inspiration to me for so many years. We participated in many blog tours together, and I had the privilege of featuring her beautiful work in more than one of my publications over the years. In fact, she is featured in one that just came out last week.
She was truly a gold standard for me — someone whose creativity, graciousness, attention to detail, and extraordinary ability to create beauty inspired me again and again and again.
I simply cannot believe she is gone.
To Mary’s family, please know that her beautiful life and creativity reached so far. She inspired me more than I can possibly say, and I know I am only one of countless people who felt that way. What a beautiful legacy she leaves behind.
My heart and prayers are with all of you. I will miss her terribly. ❤️
I’m heartbroken also… I cannot even remember when I first found Where the Boat Is… I don’t comment often but I always read. I will miss Mary and her beauriful and inspiring posts. My condolences to her family and friends.
Oh no! This is so sad. You and your beautiful photos and blog will be missed! I am heartbroken. RIP Mary.
OMG! My heart is broken 💔 I loved her newsletters and especially her pups
She warmed my life with the charm of hers!
My favorite blog and I hope we can keep getting access to the old posts as they kept so much joy in her readers life’s. Prayers and kindness to you and yours. May Jesus be your comfort. Thank you
Very sad. I have enjoyed her posts and will remember her when I see beautiful things
My thoughts and prayers for her family. Her blogs gave me so much joy reading and looking at the amazing pictures of her home decor and the dogs. She seemed to be an amazing woman. Prayers for comfort.
I am so very sorry to read this. I had been missing her posts and especially wondering after she was missing from Pam Richardson’s tea posts. And since Halloween was approaching, her favorite time, I knew something must be wrong. I was one of the fortunate readers that was lucky enough to receive goodies from her on three separate occasions. Since I also live in Piedmont NC, only about an hour and a half away from Lake Norman, I felt like we were neighbors. Her blog was always full of beautiful photos, recipes, helpful decorating hints and sweet puppy pics. She was extraordinarily gifted and talented. I will truly miss her beautiful and uplifting daily visits. My deepest condolences to her family.
Been a “friend” of hers for years. She will be sadly missed. She brought such joy and beauty.
Shocking. Sad. I will miss her
What a wonderful woman so kind
You will not be forgotten
My deepest Sympathy goes out to all of her family and friends. Mary invited us all into her Beautiful World and made us all feel so welcomed and loved. She gave so much Joy and Inspiration to me and will be missed. Sending you all prayers for Peace.
I’m so sorry! She created a beautiful world around herself and those she loved, as well as her readers. She will be missed.
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So very sorry and sad over hearing this news about Mary.
She was certainly an inspiration to me in learning about gardening and tablescaping! Her blog always fed my soul and made my day!
Living in NC and growing up in the Lake Norman area made me relate to her. Thank you Mary for making our world more beautiful.
Love and prayers for her family.
I am so sorry to hear Mary has passed away. I loved reading her blog and admiring her beautiful tablescapes, yard, plants, flowers, and potting shed decor. She will be greatly missed. Praying for your family during this difficult tome.
I am so sorry. What a beautifully creative person she was. She will certainly be missed.
I have been a follower of Mary’s blog for some time and have had the privilege of joining her on blog hops for the past few years. She was a f out of creative information and generously shared her knowledge with all of us. She will be sadly missed.
Lynne, Thrifting Wonderland
Oh my goodness, what a terrible loss! I’m so sorry for all of Mary’s family and all of her followers. Mary , you were a ray of sunshine for me when I lost my husband. Sitting in that dreadful hospital every day , when I’d read your posts they would lighten my load! Now I know you are building a new potting shed in heaven. God has a beautiful, creative angel in you! I will miss you, we all will miss you!
What a wonderfully written tribute. Mary’s blog was my favorite lifestyle content on the entire internet – beautifully styled, written and photographed with absolutely boundless creativity and an unparalled eye for design and presentation! Season after season her page has been both a respite and an incredible source of inspiration for me, and I loved trying out her recipes for my family and friends. Her table settings were beyond compare, more gorgeous than anything I’ve found on Instagram or anywhere else in the world. I’ve been busier at work than I’d like lately so I haven’t caught up on some of her wonderful fall posts but I will stop everything to do so today and just appreciate her many contributions to a beautiful life that she so generously shared with all of us, and her warm heart. There are tears in my eyes as I read this sad news and I wish her family and friends who were kind enough to let us know of her passing the comfort of abounding love and memories.
Mary was such an inspiration! She will be greatly missed. Praying for your family during this difficult time!